![]() ![]() On the opposite end of the spectrum, there are the "ditzy" characteristics that can humanize even the most genius of women. Some men would rather have a psychological advantage over a significant other than be forced to learn and grow, simply because it is easier and allows them to remain in control. Some men can’t or don’t want to be with women who are intellectually superior, which is an odd way to gauge compatibility, especially if you want to continually to grow and mature as a person. But, it does play a role. It can be difficult when a man is not the smartest person in his relationship, which strictly boils down to pride. Intellect is pretty high on the importance scale, even though many women think guys are willing to look past this (keep in mind, there is a reason why George Clooney married a lawyer).Īny mature man knows that a woman who can carry herself in various situations and discuss many different topics is a smart woman. The struggle here is based on some men’s insecurities thus, many are willing to ignore the importance of this category. Men need and want to be stimulated, but also want to feel like they’re the only ones who know just how beautiful a woman truly is. While most men won’t admit this, there is a certain level of pride associated with knowing everyone else is attracted to his (faithful) girlfriend. The struggle for guys is in the desire to date someone who is attractive, yet respectable when it comes to looks.īeing able to pull off a classy look is a good thing, but there can be some instances when too much class turns off a man. If you are going out for the night, and your girlfriend is dressed like she’s going to a baptism, you'll probably be more inclined to let your eyes and imagination wander. Typically, you notice someone before you speak to him or her. There has to be some physical attraction on some level in order to spark interest. While everyone likes to lie and pretend looks don’t matter, they do. Let’s get the most superficial characteristic out of the way first: looks. ![]() Women and men constantly try to create their perfect counterparts however, the man’s basic checklist can be limited to five key points. While I am a proponent for letting life just happen, I’d be lying if I said these subconscious thoughts were not part of the process: 1. Looks: Hot Vs. The problem occurs when a guy has been with many women before deciding to cool down, so he tries to mix and match her best characteristics to find a happy medium, the perfect partner. While some men might be willing to sleep with just about anyone with a pulse, a much different logic accompanies many a single guy who wants to give up the bachelor life and finally settle down.Įveryone (man or woman) is entitled to have his or her fun before deciding to enter a committed relationship. ![]()
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